It only takes a minute to get started. Fill out our uncomplicated sign up form and login to the website.
This step is up to you but will seriously increase your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Introduce yourself, your hobbies and upload some good photos of yourself.
Use our website's sophisticated search to pinpoint over 40s members who match your desired criteria. Or just scan through listings and pinpoint people that arouse your interest.
Discovered someone who could be interesting? Send an email to them or just a wink and see if anything develops. With a little luck you'll be on your way to uncover your soulmate.
It'll only take a few minutes