This step is discretionary but will drastically multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Write a little about yourself, your pasttimes and attach any nice photographs of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to pinpoint over 40s members who are up to your requirements. Or just scan through listings and pinpoint people that seem interesting.
Discovered someone who looks suitable? Send them a word or two or just a wink and let it develop from there. With a little luck you'll be on your way to discovering your ideal date.
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