It only takes a minute to get started. Fill out our uncomplicated sign up form and login to the site.
This step is up to you but will dramatically increase your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Write a little something about yourself, your interests and upload your best photo.
Use our website's state-of-the-art search to find over 40s members who suit your criteria. Or just flip through listings and find singles that attract you.
Identified someone who looks right? Send them a word or two or just a wink and see if anything happens. With a little luck you'll be on your way to finding your ideal date.
It only takes a few minutes