It only takes a minute to get started. Fill out our simple sign up form and login to the website.
This step is voluntary but will dramatically raise your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Introduce yourself, your pasttimes and upload some good photos of yourself.
Use our website's sophisticated search to encounter over 40s members who suit your criteria. Or just leaf through listings and encounter people that take your fancy.
Found someone who appeals to you? Send a note to them or just a wink and see if they're interested. With a little luck you'll be on your way to finding your perfect date.
It's quick and easy