This step is optional but will drastically multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Write a few sentences about yourself, your pasttimes and upload any nice photographs of yourself.
Utilise our website's advanced search to pinpoint over 40s members who meet your criteria. Or just scan through listings and pinpoint singles that attract you.
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