It only takes a minute to get started. Fill out our clean sign up form and login to the site.
This step is up to you but will drastically multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Type a little about yourself, your hobbies and upload some good photos of yourself.
Utilise our website's advanced search to pinpoint over 40s members who satisfy your requirements. Or just look through listings and pinpoint people that you find interesting.
Identified someone who looks suitable? Send a letter to them or just a wink and find out if they're interested in you. With a little luck you'll be on your way to true love.
It only takes a few clicks