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This step is discretionary but will dramatically multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Type a little about yourself, your pasttimes and attach a nice photograph of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to pinpoint over 40s members who satisfy your criteria. Or just flip through listings and pinpoint members that you like.
Identified someone who you find interesting? Send them a few words or just a wink and see if anything happens. With a little luck you'll be on your way to locating your suitable partner.
It's quick and easy