It only takes a minute to get started. Fill out our simple sign up form and login to the site.
This step is discretionary but will dramatically raise your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Type a little about yourself, your interests and upload your best photograph.
Use our website's sophisticated search to pinpoint over 40s members who match your criteria. Or just scan through listings and pinpoint singles that seem interesting.
Discovered someone who looks like a good match? Send a message to them or just a wink and see what comes of it. With a little luck you'll be on your way to locating your suitable partner.
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