This step is discretionary but will greatly multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Tell people about yourself, your interests and upload any nice photos of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to find over 40s members who meet your criteria. Or just look through listings and find people that take your fancy.
Identified someone who appeals to you? Send a note to them or just a wink and see if anything happens. With a little luck you'll be on your way to a lifetime of happiness.
It'll only take a few minutes