It only takes a minute to get started. Fill out our simple sign up form and login to the site.
This step is discretionary but will greatly multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Tell people about yourself, your pasttimes and upload a nice photograph of yourself.
Use our website's sophisticated search to pinpoint over 40s members who meet your criteria. Or just look through listings and pinpoint daters that appear interesting.
Found someone who looks appealing? Send them a few words or just a wink and find out if they're interested in you. With a little luck you'll be on your way to true love.
It doesn't take long