This step is discretionary but will dramatically multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Let people know a bit about yourself, your pasttimes and upload a nice photo of yourself.
Use our website's sophisticated search to pinpoint over 40s members who match your criteria. Or just look through listings and pinpoint singles that appeal to you.
Identified someone who you find interesting? Send a letter to them or just a wink and take it from there. With a little luck you'll be on your way to a once in a lifetime experience.
It's quick and simple