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This step is discretionary but will seriously multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Write a little about yourself, your interests and attach a nice photograph of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to pinpoint over 40s members who match your criteria. Or just look through listings and pinpoint daters that pique your interest.
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