This step is discretionary but will seriously multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Introduce yourself, your pasttimes and upload your nicest photo of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to pinpoint over 40s members who match your criteria. Or just flip through listings and pinpoint folks that arouse your interest.
Found someone who appeals to you? Send them a few words or just a wink and see if they're interested. With a little luck you'll be on your way to finding your suitable match.
It'll only take a few minutes