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This step is up to you but will greatly boost your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Let people know a bit about yourself, your pasttimes and attach a nice photograph of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to pinpoint over 40s members who meet your criteria. Or just scan through listings and pinpoint daters that take your fancy.
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It only takes a few minutes