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This step is discretionary but will dramatically enhance your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Introduce yourself, your pasttimes and upload any nice photos of yourself.
Use our website's state-of-the-art search to find over 40s members who match your desired criteria. Or just leaf through listings and find people that appeal to you.
Identified someone who looks suitable? Send a note to them or just a wink and see what they say. With a little luck you'll be on your way to discovering your perfect date.
It doesn't take long