This step is elective but will drastically raise your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Introduce yourself, your interests and upload some good photographs of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to pinpoint over 40s members who meet your criteria. Or just look through listings and pinpoint members that arouse your interest.
Identified someone who could be a good match? Send a message to them or just a wink and see if anything happens. With a little luck you'll be on your way to discovering that special someone for you.
It doesn't take long