It only takes a minute to get started. Fill out our uncomplicated sign up form and login to the site.
This step is discretionary but will seriously increase your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Write about yourself, your pasttimes and attach a nice photograph of yourself.
Use our website's state-of-the-art search to pinpoint over 40s members who meet your criteria. Or just browse through listings and pinpoint people that you find interesting.
Found someone who ticks all the boxes? Send a letter to them or just a wink and see what develops from there. With a little luck you'll be on your way to finding your suitable date.
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