This step is noncompulsory but will seriously raise your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Let people know a bit about yourself, your pasttimes and upload a nice photo of yourself.
Use our website's sophisticated search to spot over 40s members who satisfy your criteria. Or just leaf through listings and spot members that arouse your interest.
Identified someone who ticks all the boxes? Send a note to them or just a wink and see if anything happens. With a little luck you'll be on your way to locating your ideal date.
It's quick and easy