This step is optional but will seriously raise your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Tell people about yourself, your pasttimes and upload some good photos of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to find over 40s members who match your criteria. Or just look through listings and find members that you like.
Identified someone who could be interesting? Send them a message or just a wink and see if they're interested. With a little luck you'll be on your way to uncover your soulmate.
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