This step is optional but will greatly enhance your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Introduce yourself, your interests and upload some good photos of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to spot over 40s members who are up to your requirements. Or just scan through listings and spot singles that appear interesting.
Identified someone who you're attracted to? Send a letter to them or just a wink and see what they say. With a little luck you'll be on your way to discovering your suitable partner.
It's quick and simple