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This step is voluntary but will seriously boost your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Tell people about yourself, your pasttimes and upload some good photos of yourself.
Utilise our website's advanced search to spot over 40s members who match your criteria. Or just leaf through listings and spot daters that appear interesting.
Identified someone who tickles your fancy? Send them a message or just a wink and see if anything develops. With a little luck you'll be on your way to finding your proper partner.
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