This step is optional but will drastically enhance your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Introduce yourself, your hobbies and attach a nice photograph of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to locate over 40s members who suit your criteria. Or just look through listings and locate daters that appear interesting.
Located someone who looks right? Send them a few words or just a wink and see what develops from there. With a little luck you'll be on your way to finding your perfect date.
It doesn't take long