This step is optional but will dramatically multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Tell people about yourself, your pasttimes and attach any nice photographs of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to spot over 40s members who match your criteria. Or just flip through listings and spot daters that appear interesting.
Located someone who you like the look of? Send them a few words or just a wink and find out if they're interested in you. With a little luck you'll be on your way to true love.
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