This step is elective but will dramatically multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Introduce yourself, your pasttimes and upload your nicest photo of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to pinpoint over 40s members who satisfy your needs. Or just look through listings and pinpoint daters that seem interesting.
Identified someone who looks like a good match? Send a letter to them or just a wink and see if anything develops. With a little luck you'll be on your way to finding the love of your life.
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