This step is up to you but will drastically raise your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Write a little about yourself, your interests and upload any nice photographs of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to spot over 40s members who are up to your requirements. Or just browse through listings and spot singles that arouse your interest.
Found someone who looks appealing? Send a letter to them or just a wink and see what happens next. With a little luck you'll be on your way to discovering your proper partner.
You won't regret it