This step is up to you but will seriously multiply your chances of getting interest from other over 40s members on the site. Write a little something about yourself, your hobbies and upload a nice photo of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to find over 40s members who are up to your requirements. Or just scan through listings and find people that arouse your interest.
Found someone who looks appealing? Send a letter to them or just a wink and see what comes of it. With a little luck you'll be on your way to locating your proper date.
And start dating